These are my attempts to write and just maybe hit upon an alternative career that I have been so desperately looking out for! In the process of doing so I am putting down incidents that seem worth putting down here or affected me in some way.
Tears for Men?
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If we must shed tears then they are perhaps better utilized the hungry and starving children of this planet rather than waste them over men.
I am still thinking of making those compartments. How easy, it would be for all of us to have separate relationships and since you know they are in that compartment, how easy it would be for separate emotions, or would it be easy?
@Kausum: The compartment theory has intrigued me and it seems that most men who have power, money and are in their 40s think this way. Its all about having and eating cakes and the lot seems to have mastered this thought process.
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@Eve's Lungs: No I lived in Defence Colony. Are you a Delhi-ite too
The hungry and straving don't need our tears...
So you intend to just spare a tear for the hungry and the starving. Isnt there more, you can do.
@Kausum: I didn't know men had compartments til I read this! What are your compartments?
I can do plenty of other things - maybe I will talk about them in subsequent posts!